Just another night, I was gazing at the moon!

You live your life pretty confidently, with full bravery, whole lot of faith and then a situation comes up like a bang in your body and soul and all you left with is a changed you! You don't understand the reason, you don't analyze the vision and just flow in the melancholy of how you can be happy, as well You again. A hollow part you cannot fill and a sorrow night you cannot heal, a narrow path you cannot walk and a widen world you cannot bear ! It can be any situation, a loved one who is not there in your life anymore, changed equations, professional disbalance, not having what you want, haunting memories, change zone of life, transitions you cannot bear or all of above... What to do then!!?

There is no fixed answer to it. As they say, you cannot fix a broken heart without suffering, yet there is something you have to tell yourself again and again, because you have got you and when there are lonely times of your life need to calm yourself for a while.

First of all, you need to understand the life which is temporary itself cannot be tamed or wasted completely. So stop cribbing about things and people. You deserve the love you give. If you love someone who doesn't want to love you back or doesn't want to be there or doesn't want to wait as well wants to give up on you or anything, just cry; be heartbroken, it is ok! It is ok to be heartbroken, it is ok to feel the hot shivers, it is ok to downgrade yourself for someone, yet remember a thing, you have got you! You came in this world alone, you will go alone and meanwhile you will continuously try to mingle with other people. I know it is not easy and it is not ok.. there should be an eternal love which fuels your life as someone said,

According to a Greek mythology human were created with four arms, four legs and head with two faces, fearing their powers Zeus split them into two separate parts; condemning them to spend their lives in search of the other halves.

 

So one, deserves the love he/she is able to give because every person is not a passionate lover. Every one cannot believe in same intensity, so you have to find your own intensity level which can probably be your other half.

Now the other question is how to find a person who can be your other half.. at every age my definition changed of a person being the one for me.. but at the age of 26 I can say soul who can be there for you without giving up on you, a soul who can sacrifice his/her own happiness just to see you happy and that person is someone worth waiting for. May be sometimes you love someone who doesn't feel the same for you their feelings changes, then also you'll  have to have a bigger heart to walk away from the person who hurt you or left you.

At these kind of situations the best you can do is make yourself worthy. When everything falls apart and you can't understand what is wrong just stand in front of mirror and think about the ways of making yourself better, grown as a person. Invest your energy into you and take yourself on another level. This will make you happy eventually about your own self. And you will catch some peace with yourself so that the next time love hits you, you will be able to attract it from the right one as you know and respect yourself enough..